Monday, February 8, 2021

THINK BEYOND DOWRY,THINK OF HAPPINESS

 Think Beyond Dowry, Think of Happiness

 

In conventional times, dowry was given to help a newly married couple to make them financially stable. But it has become a curse for today's society. Its side effects are very frightening for all from a newly married to those who are married for years now. Though various laws are enforced to prohibit the practice of dowry, but our roots are drenched so deep into it that taking it away so soon is almost impossible. Everyone from me to you has become a part of it, supported it somehow.

 

What is the way out?

 

Well, to think of a possible solution to curb this dowry system, we, at first, need to change our priorities. Some of us think about finding a groom who is financially secured and prefer boys having government jobs. While there are boys who are into private jobs in big companies and are earning more than enough to serve their living. No doubt, job security is of prime importance, but finding someone who fits your expectations is important as well. 

 

Marriages in India are considered to be a sacred ceremony; it's a relation of love and respect and not a deal that demands the exchange of the groom for money, asset, or property.

 

How to curb the dowry system? 

 

Educate your daughters and motivate them to be independent. Also, stop searching for grooms having government jobs just for the sake of job security. Good companies and profiles in the private sector as well as Professionals, Businessmen also  relish the same job security with multiple benefits that people with government jobs lack.

 

Don’t let dowry decide your future. 

Look for happiness, not job security. The happiness of your daughter is precious; make it your priority. Make sure the groom you pick can keep her happy and contented, no matter what job he does.

 

With Regards 
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